그런 말은 하지 말아줘
— 여전히 by Casker
— Universe by The Great Deep
girl you shouldn’t have apologised
I know :\ But it had to stop from being blown out of proportion. Looking at the way he replied, I believe he won’t stop until I do so. It’s unfair, but let’s hope that life will teach him a lesson in the near future. Thanks darling!
So two days ago I uploaded this photo of Wagyu beef sandwhich from a brunch place I visited with my pals. Then, someone I know of commented ‘ew’ and that left me really speechless because i) I believe he hasn’t tasted it before and ii) that is really disrespectful. I mean, come on, who would comment such word on a picture of food that they haven’t eaten? I was annoyed and I then unfollowed him, replied him “Don’t like it?” It was really early in the morning and I was pretty frazzled cause I hadn’t had much sleep but needed to go somewhere with my friends to bring a girl whom I just met that flew from Sydney. I think he must’ve noticed it and then replied with the most disrespectful and immature comment ever.
And then he called me weak because I unfollowed him for that one word. (though, me unfollowing could be immature? but really? REALLY?)
I then replied him with his own words: to not take everything so seriously and don’t be too sensitive. The official account of the brunch place that I visited then commented on it, and said let’s all be friends here, and then told him that it really is wagyu. !!! I felt so thankful for that but I couldn’t reply as I was on the go.
THEN, he replied with the most atrocious, childish, immature, and ridiculous way, and called out on the official brunch place of being too involved. I’d rather he direct those comments to me cause really, why get them involved in this mess? Super disrespectful, rude, childish, you name it. I was fuming when I read it. It was unfair and uncalled for. The official brunch place account removed their comment right after, I believe. It was that bad.
I told A about it and he was fuming as well lol. I really wanted to say some harsh stuff to him, but refrained. My friends took notice of my disconnection from the group at one point and A told them what happened. Even they were upset about his comments. I really appreciated Bryan, Jason and Michelle for supporting me. B, A and J offered to find him and talk about it. They may be just saying it out of courtesy and half-joking, but I was really grateful for them. They’re such sweethearts, really.
Anyway, in the end I gave him a long ass message on FB saying how I felt his comments were disrespectful and apologized if whatever I commented or my actions offended him, but told him I won’t take them back. I’ve asked him on what made him so offended, but he didn’t reply. Psh.
He replied “wtf” at first and then followed by “….” and then finally “Fine. Apologize too”. Those were basically all. Seriously? One friggin essay and those few words? This kid. Btw, this kid is 18 and looks like he’s got an expensive lifestyle. Definitely from the riches of Indo. He was sort of my neighbour back in where I used to stay but after this, I lost all my respect for him.